Forcing a Change Never Leads to Love

Something I’ve discovered through this work:

Trying to change my own, my husband’s or my kids’ behaviour or perspective always ends in frustration and disappointment on a surface level. On a deeper level it leads to cycles of shame and judgement.

Acceptance and Building The New with intimacy skills, regulation skills, and intuitive processing is way more productive, empowering, and helps me sustain the change I want to experience on the surface. It also leads to abundance and love on that deeper level.