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Hello!

I’m Heidi Lakin, a RELATIONSHIP COACH

sipping on CONNECTION

 
 

Forged in the fire

I got married to the love of my life, yet those first 10+ years were some of the most painful. I felt alone, scared, numb and unsure of how to change my story. After trying in all the ways I knew how to heal and fix what was broken, I surrendered in a way I never had and landed on something that transformed my life. It turns out my marriage wasn’t too far gone nor was I too messed up, unlovable or unworthy to have what I was yearning for… a connected, playful, passionate and safe relationship with my husband. I just needed to learn some new skills so I could write the story I wanted to be in and live a life I truly adore!

Now I have the honor of coaching other women in the same realization —helping them build something new by learning powerful skills, for an incredibly connected, wholesome marriage & life!

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