Relationship CoachING
Creating a life you adore!
Hi, welcome to my holistic, relationship coaching program.
My priority as your coach is to ensure you have a life-giving experience while achieving your relationship goals. I aim to nurture your process by facilitating a really respectful and safe environment as we dive in and do the work. You are the expert on your life so I’m not here to tell you what to do. I am here to EQUIP, support, encourage and inspire you out of a stuck place and into an empowered place where YOU can cultivate connection with yourself, your husband, in all other relationships and in motherhood. I love this approach because it unlocks the power behind owning your story and learning how to show up for it so you can create a life you adore!
This means we don’t focus on the past, how your husband needs to change or other people’s behaviors. We don’t even focus on your marriage. We focus on you.
I give you all the tools you need to BUILD THE NEW with what is yours to control; You’ll see how controlling other people is not connective or the best use of anyone’s time and it certainly isn’t a burden worth carrying. Instead, I will help you prioritize accountability alongside learning new skills so you can invest in what you are responsible for and INFLUENCE a transformation in your relationship.
One of the best parts about it is, you can do this work and see lasting change without forcing anyone else into it.
Here are just some of the goals I help you achieve with this method:
How to master 6 incredible skills to cultivate a connected marriage that feels effortless, intimate and playful, even if your situation seems hopeless.
Opportunities to heal old wounds and dysfunction through new experiences, without ruminating on the past.
Becoming present; Knowing how to connect to and trust yourself.
Confidence in who you are, what you desire and how to cultivate it.
To recap, I help you build the new by implementing powerful skills with a focus on how you show up because that is where all your power lies. You will discover how to inspire a genuine connection with your man without any manipulation or control and because of that you will feel GENUINELY cherished, desired and adored. Not only does this create a deep sense of worthiness and dignity for yourself, it also creates emotional safety for you and your husband!
Things to know:
This work is probably going to grate against you if you are used to viewing everything through spiritual eyes. This work is practical. It brings you back to your body and helps you learn to trust yourself. It reminds you of you who are and why it is important to be whole and healed in yourself to see lasting transformation in your relationships. It does not allow you to control your situation through prayer and spiritual warfare. There is nothing wrong with these things, however I know for myself, I was using spirituality as a way to control my husband and others around me. This work completely rocked me to my core and gave me the opportunity to surrender and let go so I could rebuild from a place of connection rather than forced expectations.
This work might offend you if you think marriage is mostly about working on communication with your partner. This work makes it about you. It teaches you how to become wildly accountable. It shows you how to live empowered through that accountability. It disrupts the cultural norms where marriage is the focus of all the work, and it brings it back to the individual. This means you own what you want to see, you own the change, you own how you show up because you are fully accepting responsibility for your life within the marriage.
This work will most likely be really frustrating if you want to remain in control and focus on a certain outcome rather than learn to cultivate. This work is a journey and it teaches you how to till and plow your life. It’s a holistic approach and instead of just trying to get to the destination quickly, it takes the scenic route. It is about fully healing, connecting, surrendering and owning every step along the way. It shows you how control never leads to love and is a fast way to kill the connection to yourself and others. You’ll see how control is a way to betray yourself because you abandon yourself when you focus on the behaviors of others. This work is about self acceptance, self compassion and self empowerment. It’s about trusting the process so you can CULTIVATE the life you’ve always wanted.
If this resonates with you, then I’d love to jump on a discovery call and talk more about creating an intentional, tailor made coaching program just for you!
